I lost my dad way back in 1994 when he was only 54 and I was just 27.
It was an unexpected death due to an aortic aneurism. It was a Sunday in February. I was just up from the bed when my mom told me something was wrong with him. I called the ambulance and we took him to the Emergency Room at a large university hospital around 10 a.m. and by 5 p.m. he was gone.
He had lost his dad as a child at the age of 9. Having lived through that loss, he wanted to be a great dad.
He was an agricultural engineer with a PhD on plant protection.
He was a very loving father, a true family man and he sacrificed a career just to make sure both my sister and I receive the education he wanted us to get. We were good students and made him proud.
He had a great sense of humor which could be annoying at times. His worst habit was that he worried too much and was a born pessimist. I may be like that at times but, not as much as he was. He loved reading and learning about new things. In that respect, I have taken after him too.
We had our differences growing up especially when I was a teenager but, mom always managed us both. She was and still is the boss.
I cannot imagine having someone else as a father. I loved him very much and still miss him. Not a day goes by that I do not think about him or remember something funny he might have said.
I hope, you are resting in Peace Dad! Happy Father's Day!
That's a very sweet tribute to your dad. And how sad to lose him so suddenly! Those of us who had good father's were really lucky!
ReplyDeleteThank you! Having a good set of parents is a true blessing.
DeleteI did not have a good father! But, my mother made up for him.
ReplyDeleteA lovely tribute to your dad! He sounds like the kind of dad everyone should have, and sadly isn't lucky enough to have. I didn't have a lot of time with my dad and feel I really missed out. xx
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